Being Who And What You Want To Be
Coco Chanel once said, “A girl should be two things, who and what she wants.” We fortunately live in a day and age where women have more freedom to do and be whatever they want. The key though, is believing that you can be who and whatever you want to be. Firstly, it’s very important for you to define who are and not fall into the traps of what society thinks you should be, how you should look, or how you should act.
When you define who you are, you make a distinction about the woman that you want to be. For example, I, Shaun, am a strong woman, that has overcome many obstacles, is loyal, trustworthy, kind, a work in progress, who has a beautiful spirit, and a desire to inspire others. That, is the foundation of who I am and from that definition, I am able to be who and what I want to be. You must carve out who you are for yourself so you can be who and what you want. That way, when your circumstances change, you lose a lover, get laid off from your job, or end up dealing with a broken heart, you still have a strong foundation about the person that you are. So define yourself and love yourself so you can be who and what you want.